Lonely?

So! My first "on demand" blogging! About loneliness! My pro tips to not being lonely... I'm a pro now.... yeh.. you heard me... I AM A PRO! Or something.... anyway...

This is about the not having a boyfriend/girlfriend kinda lonely by the way. As there are quite a few ways to feel lonely, which I might get back to later on this blog!

I think the first mistake when you are alone is to be bothered about it, whats  so bad about being alone? When you go around feeling lonely, you usually end up over  thinking everyone of the opposite sex says too you... Clinging to every thing that can be interpreted as flirting because you desperately want it to be! 
That rarely ends well... you can scare off potential new friends or even guys/girls that do like you by being too needy.

It's a evil circle that makes you more and more insecure and lonely, and therefore more and more needy and less likely to meet someone. People notice when you are really needy, at least it's easy to see if you are somewhat decent at reading people, and it's.. well let's face it.. Unattractive.. It's not what most people look for in a new potential partner. 

The only way to get better is to work with yourself, a lot.. I realize that is pretty much what I say in every blog about problems... fix it your self... but it's the only thing that really helps! You can get some person that will care enough to try help you but in the end other people can't all ways fix your problems. You got to step up and change!
More about change here! ;)


Start off with when you think someone is flirting with you, consider it for a few minutes... If you saw that person say the same thing to a different person... would it still seem like flirting to you? If not. It was not. Unless they tried to touch you or something.. O.o That is a obvious sign that you are special too them! Or they are slutty... 
Don't get emotionally involved in some random words someone said to you when they were drunk! Be more hard to get damn it! 
You pretty much have to care less... I'm not saying be a dick and act cocky.. But don't jump on every word your told and pray for flirting. Just chill! 

Soon as you calm down a bit, and you're not THAT needy, people will see a difference. You will seem more sure of yourself and stronger in general. Stand tall and be proud of yourself! It's attractive! For both men and women! :) At least it is for the kind of person you should want to attract... you don't want the kind of person that wants a weak partner... That's no good!