It's a wonderful thing what a dad and
a daughter can have, being “Daddy's little girl” is something a
lot of women can remember, or might still be! It has no age limit,
it's simply a title filled with love and respect. The dad is a strong
yet loving male figure in ones life and this can give you a great
example on how men should treat you when you grow up! Or a horrible
one... Sadly more often then it should be it's a bad one.
What really happens if this bubble
bursts...
In a young girls eyes her dad should
and hopefully is the one who protects you and will always be there
when you are in trouble, but what if they are not? What if this once
so familiar and safe person becomes someone you fear, someone you
definitely can not count on to protect you or to help you?
No matter if you are a child or an
adult by the time this shows itself to be the case, it's still scary.
Your on your own
At least that's how it seems at first!
You might not be, you might have loads of family and friends there.
But that's not always any help to you at the time.
The second you realize that this person
you once looked to for being safe is now the thing you fear.
Is there still a place you're safe?
It breaks my heart to think about.
Usually I write some sort of self help
way to make it better or bla bla bla! But I don't have any clue here
I guess.
If you are one of these girls that “lost” their dad in that way, hugs for you! That's about all one can do! And hopefully the bond with your father may someday be healed.
If you are one of these girls that “lost” their dad in that way, hugs for you! That's about all one can do! And hopefully the bond with your father may someday be healed.
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