Are you really displeased with how your life is at the moment? Can't sleep at night because there is so much stuff on your mind that you could only hope to ever get off it!
You know what is the only way to fix it? Do something about it!
Even if you fail at changing anything, at least you tried, and it's not like not trying at all was helping either?
All most anything can be fixed with effort and time, but there is rarely a quick fix sadly!
If you want to change your life, only you can do this, and you are going to have to work hard no matter how little or big the part you want to change is.
You want a change? YOU have to change! No one else can help you, it's got to be all you, all the way.
ESPECIALLY if you are the problem, if you are not happy with yourself, how can anyone else fix that for you? Step up to the plate, not for anyone or anything else then for yourself, change how you think and in the end you will be happier.
If you manage to go through this alone, you will come out a so much stronger person that you would ever believe you could be! It's an amazing feeling when you can say you don't call someone else every time you don't know what to do, you just fix it, it's kinda called... being a independent adult actually!
When you are at a point where you fix your own problems, be the problem love, money, depression or anything else really, when you fix it all yourself, and you don't just sit around crying about it expecting some miracle to come along... then you my friend, are an independent human being! Go you!
Some people need to just man up and sort it themselves, and I am hoping that reading this will motivate some of them to do so. But odds are it will most likely make them feel a bit more shit about themselves and they will sit on their arse and think " I wish someone else could make me feel better now ".
If you get insulted by this and I annoyed you now, maybe you are one of those people who need to change something then? Because if you are happy with yourself you will simply nod in agreement!
You know what is the only way to fix it? Do something about it!
Even if you fail at changing anything, at least you tried, and it's not like not trying at all was helping either?
All most anything can be fixed with effort and time, but there is rarely a quick fix sadly!
If you want to change your life, only you can do this, and you are going to have to work hard no matter how little or big the part you want to change is.
You want a change? YOU have to change! No one else can help you, it's got to be all you, all the way.
ESPECIALLY if you are the problem, if you are not happy with yourself, how can anyone else fix that for you? Step up to the plate, not for anyone or anything else then for yourself, change how you think and in the end you will be happier.
If you manage to go through this alone, you will come out a so much stronger person that you would ever believe you could be! It's an amazing feeling when you can say you don't call someone else every time you don't know what to do, you just fix it, it's kinda called... being a independent adult actually!
When you are at a point where you fix your own problems, be the problem love, money, depression or anything else really, when you fix it all yourself, and you don't just sit around crying about it expecting some miracle to come along... then you my friend, are an independent human being! Go you!
Some people need to just man up and sort it themselves, and I am hoping that reading this will motivate some of them to do so. But odds are it will most likely make them feel a bit more shit about themselves and they will sit on their arse and think " I wish someone else could make me feel better now ".
If you get insulted by this and I annoyed you now, maybe you are one of those people who need to change something then? Because if you are happy with yourself you will simply nod in agreement!
Just
want to add that I do not mean this to all people in
all cases, if you get bullied or in real trouble, off course you should
ask for help from other people! But I'm assuming people can see what I
mean unless you are trying to look for something to say I was wrong
about! :p
And if you say you can't change, then at least don't whine about it not changing.
And if you say you can't change, then at least don't whine about it not changing.
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